Ladies, Do Your Guy Friends Masturbate To Thoughts Of You Too?

“I believe the real reason why everyone says men and women cannot be friends is because one party cannot manage their emotions in a way that isn’t self-centered and uncomfortable for their friend to handle.”

Early this morning my friend and I were texting each other. He just got into his apartment from partying with friends after work and we both happened to be up at the same time.

I asked him what he was doing up so late. At first he was nervous to disclose what he was doing in the privacy of his bedroom. But then he told me he was in bed masturbating to thoughts of me and the fun moments we shared together when we used to stay up late just vibing, laughing, and sharing our deepest secrets and relationship blunders.

With widened eyes I stared at my phone for a long time. Now I wasn’t offended at all; my friends and I are very open and honest with each other. I was just surprised that he was thinking about me when we haven’t had a real conversation in almost a year. But his confession also reminded me that connection does matter to men, not only looks and the lust men feel around beautiful ladies. And a woman can linger on their minds just by how she made him feel with no sex involved.