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Ladies, Quit Saying This Self-Sabotaging Shit!
No more sitting on the sidelines. No more admitting defeat without even trying. Work on you each and every day. You are worth the effort.
It is so popular for many women, especially those in the spiritual space, to blame all sorts of spirits for why they can’t do something. I’ve even observed this with religious women as well: their male god won’t let them learn how to do something. He won’t give them the various talents they really want.
“This is why they won’t give me the body!”
“God knew better than to give me a fluid waist ’cause I would not know how to act.”
“This is why they gave me an ass, but not the knowledge of how to shake it.”
First of all, who the hell is they? The unseen who is watching you waste your potential worrying about what you think they should do for you? Why on earth is any god responsible for handing you the body you want? Why is any spirit responsible for you learning how to dance? I’m a little lost here.
If you listen closely, you will never, ever hear anyone say, “The ancestors knew better than to give me the love of my life!” It’s always about what they want to do for themselves but can’t do for reasons beyond their control, and those reasons always have to do with a damn spirit, deity, god, or group of…
