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Ladies, This Is Not Beautiful By Any Stretch Of The Imagination!

Sanni Lark
5 min readJan 12, 2023

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“There is nothing beautiful about anyone using your womanhood to cater to their ugly demands!”

Credit: Eyup Beyhan via Pexels

Ladies, can we please quit glorifying martyrdom as an attractive quality to possess in the year 2023 and beyond? Sheesh! It was not cute to be a sacrificial lamb in the era of our mothers, grandmothers, great-grandmothers, and beyond, and it sure as hell is not cute now! Not now and not ever!

I thought we buried the work mule chic trend last year? I thought we were moving forward as healthy, well-fed, well-rested, well-pleasured, and well-paid women? Someone please explain to me why are we resurrecting this nonsense from the dead?

I was scrolling through Facebook and a woman I follow shared a post from an unknown author titled Beautiful Woman. I am now considering leaving her group, because you can tell a lot about a person’s mindset from what they share and applaud as their truth. Personally, I do not care to be surrounded by drained, love-addicted, energetically-deficient women in person and online!

The post reads as follows:

She can deal with stress and carry heavy burdens.

She smiles when she feels like screaming, and she sings when she feels like crying.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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