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Ladies, Your Anger Doesn’t Mean Shit Without Action: Exploring The Unproductive Loop Of Rewarding Men Who Don’t Do Right By You

Sanni Lark
6 min readNov 21, 2021

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Today I read yet another article from a woman claiming she is angry about dating and men in general. While she never expressed this sentiment, I believe that she is also mad with herself because for some reason she cannot let these men go and just live her life. Or maybe she’s irritated because she feels she deserves some unicorn gentleman and she is holding on to this fantasy for dear life, despite noticing that the odds not stacking in her favor?

Either way, some of her anger is misdirected.

Truthfully, I read her words from start to finish with no emotion. Because it made me wonder how many ladies are writing these elaborate think pieces yet they still refuse to take effective action to get what they want from their gender counterpart? Or maybe just do what it is needed to be at peace, even if that means being single?

Ladies, anger is an emotion. It is not action. Your anger only holds power and scares men (and people who continually fuck you over) when it fuels changed behavior.

From my experience and through the lessons I’ve gathered from powerful women over the years, the only action misbehaving men respect is the revoking of access and privileges to…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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