Let’s Just Call All Men Narcissists And Move On With Our Lives

Sanni Lark
4 min readApr 3, 2022

According to Mayo Clinic, “Narcissistic personality disorder…is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.”

Ladies, how many men can you honestly say do not fit this definition?

During the pandemic I noticed a trend on social media regarding relationships. It was the rise of outing narcissistic people and understanding their personality and character traits, behavioral patterns, and mental traps they use to dominate others.

While I pretty much steered clear of the conversations surrounding narcissism, I did pay attention to the many ladies who admitted how almost all of their past partners could be identified as narcissists. I also noticed how so many women were dead set on grouping the opposite sex into two camps: narcissists, who are “bad,” and the non-narcissists, also known as the good guys that are pure of heart, have golden intentions, and would never play any games with women.

I am not trying to discredit any woman’s experiences with narcissistic men, nor burst their bubble with the hope that the non-narcissist of their dreams is out there. But may I pose the notion that pretty much all men are narcissists…

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Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com