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Marriage, The Survival Tactic Of Desperate, Miserable Women
There is no real reason for any woman who is secure in herself, her life, and her investment of her time, love, body, and emotions in a man she actually likes and loves to require marriage.
If women were honest with themselves they will admit that they do not really want true independence, which naturally comes with the divine authority to pick, choose, and remove men from their lives any time they please. Instead, they desire the safety, security, finances, provisions, and certainty that husbands are supposed to come with.
This is why they’re so damn desperate for that ring. The coveted engagement ring is supposed to serve as the very first tangible indicator that a man is serious about saving her ass.
After a lot of introspection, observation, and healing on my end, because at one point I was in the same boat as these women due to my own fucked up choices, I can honestly say that men as a whole have the feminine gender wrapped around their stubby, ugly fingers. Women are outwardly pretending to be confident and lying to themselves about how choosy and worthy they are when they will literally date, sex, and procreate with men they don’t like for years in hopes that he will eventually pop the question.
