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Marrying A Man For “The Right Reasons” Is Silly As All Hell!
“Fuck those ethics and morals! It’s time to sin and win, honey!”
Years ago I had a conversation with my mother which summarized for me how many women think regarding men and marriage. At the time I thought I wanted to be someone’s wife, and so I told her that I wanted to marry a man for his money.
If you must know, I do not think my stance is bad or wrong. Frankly, I personally don’t adapt the norms of good and bad as it pertains to morals and other social and religious brainwashing. I firmly believe that these completely made-up rules are meant to be challenged, questioned, and even broken.
After my mother bluntly (and correctly) stated that I would make a terrible wife, she calmly told me that if I wanted to be hitched I should only do so for the right reasons.
What the fuck does that even mean? What’s right for one woman is dead-ass wrong for me!
Let me guess: the right reasons to marry a man is all about being his life partner for eternity, with love being the centerfold of the relationship that will gracefully carry you two through the ups and downs?
Who is feeding y’all this shit?
So many women all over the world got married for the right reasons, even though we all know that these…