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Masculine Prerequisites To Earn Obedient Women
What man who is actually assertive, resourceful and takes initiative has to beg and provoke a woman to ease her burdens?! Make it make sense!
We are trained to believe that all boys are naturally born with the ability to lead when this isn’t true. Leadership is but one quality of masculine energy which every single human being is born with, just like everyone has feminine energy. I should add that cultivating the leader within means that one must rise to the occasion and meet the challenges this role comes with.
Merely expecting someone else to submit to your leadership when you have yet to cultivate the discipline, resilience, stress management, emotional intelligence and tangible resources to carry a relationship or a family is not manhood. I think it is high time we encourage men to quit yapping about how emasculated they feel and finally show and prove who they are and what they’re made of.
I mean, feelings do have truth to them. I think this is why we avoid and demonize our vulnerability.