…Maybe You Should Be The Mistress?

“While many women lose themselves in one-sided relationships and marriages that do not benefit them, being the mistress can be a position of feminine power and domination if you play your cards right.”

I have been very vocal about my personal decision to never be attached to any man through marriage or children in this lifetime. I actually think it is beneath me to be any man’s wife or mother of his children.

While I do not seek to discourage women from desiring relationships or marriage, I still care enough to share my personal experiences and lessons as a young woman who has been involved in quite a few love triangles with men who resent their partners, and their girlfriends and wives who didn’t even know I existed. I believe my unique lifestyle and views on men and relationships bring balance to a conversation men have controlled since the beginning of time.

What women do not want to accept is that their gender counterpart intentionally uses marriage and children as precious trinkets to be dangled in single women’s faces. In the eyes of many men, these two major aspects of womanhood are merely pawns to keep women stuck in unfavorable situations that result in poverty, unfulfilled goals, abuse, and heartbreak that can manifest as physical and mental disease in the body. They expertly market wifehood and motherhood as permanent…