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Men Don’t Have Red Flags! They Are Red Flags!

Sanni Lark
4 min readAug 6, 2022

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Today I had a good belly-hearted laugh at all the dating advice women receive on a regular basis. Some of this advice is well-meaning, but hilariously misconstrued, as it mainly comes from hopeless romantic women who either don’t have a clue about the true nature of men, or choose to ignore their feminine instincts about men because they want a partner so badly.

The hot topic in the dating scene stems from red flags. According to the dating world, common red flags in men are recognized from their lifestyle choices as well as their mentality, which include being cheap or stingy with their wallets, not wanting to commit in a monogamous, long-term relationship or marriage, fathering multiple children with multiple women, having lots of debt and bad credit, being a serial liar, and leading women on, amongst a string of other flags.

This “red flag” nonsense is one of the oldest wives tales in the book, and it really has some women believing that some men have red flags and others don’t.

Lies!

Maybe it’s just me, but I haven’t come across any man who doesn’t possess either one or many of these flags? The red flags that do not exist in one man exist in another. And vice versa. In other words, all men possess red flags because they are red flags! Plain and simple.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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