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Men, Get Real: You Can’t Afford The Traditional Women You Demand!

Sanni Lark
7 min readApr 15, 2023

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“Why are single-as-a-dollar-bill men so fucking judgmental towards women they don’t even want to marry and provide for? Mind your damn business!”

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Last night I watched a YouTube video from a young man who claims that feminists are the most miserable women on the planet. The title alone piqued my interest; so while I did my yoga routine I listened to the host provide his reasoning.

While I did not agree with his overall message that feminists should basically shut the hell up and have babies, he did provide some valid points in his video. On top of that, the young man had me analyzing one glaring detail he overlooked when it comes to his stance that men and women should unite and go back to traditional roles. His comments section, filled with an amen corner of single faceless men who are fed up with being rejected, also proved my opinion to be sound.

You see, it is very easy for men to type away on their keyboards or record a video proclaiming that women need to quit being so modern, so immoral, so independent, and so unfeminine, and instead return back to the traditional way of existing as a feminine being. But why is the onus to repair the brokenness between the sexes only placed on women, and why does this resolution always involve us being accommodating to all men, no matter what?

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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