Men have a lot of internal issues they take out on women to hide their true selves and their true feelings. It’s easier to ignore, reject, or treat a woman they’re attracted to terribly than risk facing themselves and dealing with their shit. Of course that leaves us feeling empty and wanting what men secretly desire and need but cannot give us.
This is something many women face regardless of their “sexual value” and where they fare according to traditional beauty standards. The idea that only conventionally beautiful women are the sole candidates for healthy relationships and great sex lives while the rest of us are made to suffer is a falsehood, completely made up by traumatized and hurt men.