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Men, Keep Your Hellos & Compliments. We Don’t Want ‘Em!

Sanni Lark
6 min readMar 8, 2022

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I saw a TikTok video of a man reacting to a woman’s request to never be approached at a gas station. He was completely confused that she not only didn’t care to be kind or thank the man for his compliments, but it upset him that she spoke about her experience on a public platform. In the video he went for the famous go-to line that is always used whenever a woman does anything that slightly inconveniences men in any way:

“So you’re single and you wonder why!”

Fellas, common sense dictates that the single women you want (but don’t want you) are attractive, intelligent, and have no issue changing their relationship status from single to partnered at the snap of their fingers. Many women, including those ladies you think are absolutely hideous, do not have any issue receiving male attention. I have yet to meet a woman who gets absolutely no play from the masculine. Actually, I would love to meet her and switch places with her. Y’all give me anxiety.

Anyway, what does this actually mean?

This means that some women are intentionally single. They do not want to be bothered with you, or men in general. They want to be left the fuck alone. No, this is not meant to be a game of playing hard to get and transforming a woman’s wishes into a challenge to satisfy your ego, either.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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