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Men Should Start Being Materialistic, For Maturity’s Sake

Sanni Lark
3 min readMar 22, 2025

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A lot of men are comfortable providing for their woman, so long as her needs and wants do not force this man to face his unwillingness to evolve in his manhood.

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The overall consensus is that American women are materialistic. But, what’s wrong with being a materialistic woman, unless you don’t feel secure in your manhood because you do not have materials to offer this woman, or you do not have what it takes to obtain these materials? Remember, every single complaint has an emotional pain point.

I must ask, why must materials be optional in a relationship for it to be “authentic” where women and children must go without, but the things a man wants in a relationship is a requirement? If materials are optional, I believe sex can be optional as well. You know, since we are loving each other for who we are, not what we can offer one another.

Because the requirements a man has for a woman usually are not materialistic but sexual and domestic in nature, men are allowed to have as many demands towards his woman that he considers to be normal feminine qualities. But apparently a woman is asking for too much when she requires things that her man’s low self-esteem cannot deliver on, which are physical resources that can enhance his family’s quality of life. You know, the same family he expects this woman to…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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