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Men Tell Me They Want To Fuck Me All The Time. And I Really Don’t Mind.
“The truth is that whether a man is able to sweep you off your feet or not, he still wants to fuck you. Hard. It is what it is.”
Once I realized that I really do not care for the traditional monogamous long-term relationship everyone tells me I should aspire to, I became a more relaxed woman. I stopped looking for husbands and serious boyfriends in every single man I met. I began to appreciate the humor, silliness, and brutal honesty men add to my life. This has made me a more intelligent and well-rounded person, because I am willing to listen to the shit I don’t want to hear for my own good.
One aspect I had to mend when it came to dealing with the opposite sex was learning how to handle their sexual feelings towards me. Before I used to find it crass and quite offensive that a man would want to fuck me without any promise of a relationship or commitment. But when I realized that those things didn’t matter to me I welcomed the honesty of men and I allowed them to feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable and share how they really felt about me.
Unlike many ladies who think they know what men want, even though they avoid having brutally honest conversations with them, I speak to men daily. I know how they feel about their partners and their children. I know how some of them…