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Middle Age Goals: Become A Wealthy “Muscle Mommy” With A Boy Toy
“In my opinion, searching for love in men is gross. Love yourself, and use them instead. There’s less disappointment involved.”
For those that do not know, when it comes to relationships I’ve only dated and been with much older men. I would say the youngest men I’ve been with were at least ten years my senior. The oldest being over 30 years my age.
I’ve always enjoyed the company of older men. They are fun to be around, plus they have much more life experience; I have learned quite a few pertinent life lessons from them. In addition, I loved being the “young, hot thing” whose vigor, youthful yet adorable naiveté, and positive outlook on life is refreshing to the much older gentleman who seeks emotional and mental refuge from his nagging wife and mundane life responsibilities.
“You have a lot of energy,” one of my exes used to tell me all the time. His compliment used to confuse me, because I never thought of myself as a gorgeous ball of energy. But I guess my ability to keep his spirits up when he was down served as an asset for him and something he looked forward to during our phone calls.
So I always thought I would continue to exclusively deal with older men if I wanted to be involved with men at all. But now I am singing a different tune and heading…
