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Most Women Don’t “Choose Wrong.” They Just Choose What’s Available

Sanni Lark
2 min readAug 10, 2021

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It’s funny how every bad experience women have with men is pointed back at them to shame them for their choices.

Women have been told since the beginning of time that they always choose the wrong men. They reject the “good guys” in favor of the exciting bad boys.

I do not believe there is any such thing as a good guy.

Maybe because I believe a man who is honorable, honest, and has integrity shouldn’t warrant any extra merit.

Maybe because good character in men should be the bare minimum.

Anyway, if the majority of women around the world are having very similar traumatic experiences with their partners, why do we point the finger at women instead of examining the common denominator, which is the men?

The sad truth is that most men that occupy this planet are the same. There is a very small select group of women that experience very fulfilling, loving, satisfying relationships with their significant others. The rest are complaining.

The average woman is not at all happy with her love life. But being single or waiting around for the very rare unicorn of a decent man seems too daunting for her. So she stays in the relationship that drains her. And she may even put up a front that she…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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