Of course men will be men, but my experiences with black men stems from spiritual, cultural, and historical roots that are unique to us. So the intention behind their actions is different, even though all men are the same. For black men, their hatred is fueled by more than just the masculine urge to control women.
I can appreciate that you’re trying to understand and relate. However, certain energies cannot be perceived if you have not lived this experience as a black woman. I’m just being honest.