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One Of My Biggest Pet Peeves Of All Time
“This is why I do not practice forgiveness, and whatever comes to them as a result of their wrong-doing is well-deserved.”
I hate being lied to.
I especially hate when people attempt to repeat back to me what I said, when those words never came out of my mouth in the first place. They just want to be let off the hook and not own up to their behavior.
I like to think that I am a very understanding person. So all I ask is that I get the truth. We can have an honest discussion and move on.
But no.
Leave it to the manipulators to try and bend the truth, gaslight me, and move on without a crumb of remorse. This is why I do not practice forgiveness, and whatever comes to them as a result of their wrong-doing is well-deserved.
I was in the shower when I remembered a blatant lie someone told me a few months ago. At the time I was upset because they nonchalantly tried to put words in my mouth and disregard my feelings. I am a Cancer. I don’t forget anything, and I especially remember everything I said.
This person got a text from me tonight, clarifying what really occurred and me detailing how they made me feel. Is it too late in the game to bring this up? Probably. But I don’t care. Better late than never.
A liar is someone who cannot be trusted. And someone who can’t be trusted can never be loved by me.