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PSA: Dark Skin & Broad Noses Are Not Masculine
Our society cannot seem to make room for feminine beauty standards that do not glorify lightness, both in color and in weight, as the standard of womanhood.
Colorism is rife in the black community, and the world in general. As a result it is common to lazily associate dark skin and large facial features, both of which I possess, as masculine. Hence the, “You look just like your dad” statement many, many dark-skinned daughters like myself are forced to hear out of mouths that could be kept shut.
It’s like, do I actually look like my dad? Or, do we both have dark skin and large noses and you’re too goddamn lazy to see me as an individual woman, a feminine individual woman at that, because you hold a deep-rooted cultural stigma that it is impossible for black women to look like anything other than a man if they aren’t light-skinned with dainty facial features?
If you think I am being dramatic, keep in mind that the association between blackness and masculinity is so strong that it is socially acceptable for people to gather online and question the gender…
