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Real Talk, Can Y’all Stop Marrying Poor Men Please?
Submitting to men who can only afford I love you’s, kisses, cuddles, hugs, and sex is deplorable.
The law of cause and effort, or karma, is not what we think it is. We spend our lives focusing on how karma negatively affects those who hurt us but we are not aware that karma also comes for our asses for even allowing these people into our lives to hurt us in the first place!
Karma is the bad bitch who wants us to boss up, and so we will feel the repercussions of our decisions that led us to calling on her. This is why so many women have whole husbands and they are still complaining about maternity leave, low wages, and the high cost of living when their spouses should be caring and compassionate enough to not have their wives risking their lives protesting in the streets with complete strangers and waking up at dawn to head to jobs where they are disrespected, humiliated, and sexually harassed.
Women really think suffering in these ways while sexing a man is normal, but I am here to tell you that this nonsense does not have to be your normal. You don’t have to settle down with any man just because he claims he loves you. A man who truly loves you understands that your safety, health, emotional well-being, and life are affected by his ability to provide. So if he wants what’s best for you he wouldn’t want to…
