Reinventing Sexuality For The 21st Century: Single & Celibate Women Can Have Great Sex Lives Too

“If so many women can only achieve orgasm through masturbation, why are we still telling them that masturbation doesn’t properly count as sex simply because they aren’t fucking a man?!”

Ladies, life is in the here and now. We are doing away with waiting for someday, one day, or any day that may seem more perfect than what we have in this moment.

My work is not about creating a coven of single, childfree women who cannot function, exist, and interact with men or the world around them. It is simply about recognizing that you do not need anyone outside of yourself to handle your business, achieve your goals, feel good about yourself, make money, or be happy and fulfilled. No matter what happens in your life you still have yourself to lean on. And that’s more than enough.

Regarding sexuality, I knew I was on the right path when I decided to quit hoping and crossing my fingers for some faceless man in the future to give me the same intense orgasms that I can easily give myself. My fingers belong on my clit, not clasped together in prayer for some man I will most likely be frustrated with within the first few minutes of our first sexual encounter. I have been cultivating and expressing my personal sensual essence in a variety of ways…