Self-Care Tip: Do Not Accept Changed Behavior

From my experience, holding out for changed behavior is a scam and I truly believe people should leave at the first red flag.

I have been met with apologies and changed behavior from friends, family, and romantic partners, and I always found myself resenting that person even though they saw the error in their ways and vowed to do better. Holding out for changed behavior is a scam that isn’t worth it, in my opinion. You may end up regretting staying with that person for so long, and you will leave them anyway. Ask me how I know!

Why not conserve your time and your peace of mind, and move on from the minute anyone disrespects you?

The real reason why this shouldn’t be accepted is that anyone who comes into your life should do right by you from the jump. From day one they should behave as if they value and cherish you and your presence in their lives. Trust me, you don’t have to stay anywhere where you are treated badly. Contrary to popular belief, relationships are completely optional. They can be beneficial with the right people, but they can also serve as a source of stress.

You don’t have to forgive anyone or wait for them to change. Why? Because we are all aware of our actions and how they impact our loved ones when we hurt them. Most people will harm you intentionally as a means to…