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Sexually Frustrated Men Rate Women To Avoid Rejection
Women are allowed to feel good about themselves in ways that make men doubt their own abilities to control them.
The rise of the manosphere has given men who struggle in the dating market a lot of audacity. This includes the creation of a scale to not only rate the sexual desirability of women, but to also conclude that women who fall below a 10, whatever the fuck that looks like, to be more malleable and desperate due to an assumed lack of male attention.
This ratings scale is downright ridiculous, because at the end of the day it takes two. Meaning, the system only works if both the man and the woman he’s after agrees with his rating of her and she behaves appropriately. So if she’s a 3 she must act like a 3. But this objective is extremely difficult to reach for many reasons.
One, every single woman on earth has her own judgments about herself that may not coincide with the judgments belonging to desperate, horny men, especially given that women have other areas of self-esteem that do not center around their sexual desirability. I can attest that my confidence grew tremendously once I gave myself permission to view myself as a more well-rounded human being, not just a pretty face and hole for the merriment of men.
