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Single Mothers & Their Irrational Fear Of Never Dating Again!

Sanni Lark
4 min readJun 1, 2023

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“Is it really such a curse to be single that women are willing to be abused for eternity just to say they have a man?”

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Would anyone actually date a mom of four? My ex hounds me daily saying that no one will ever want me for anything but sex because I have kids so he is constantly telling me I need to just marry him. Even though he doesn’t even like me or our kids!

This was the question posed by a single mother on Facebook who feels as if she has something to prove to her emotionally abusive ex-boyfriend. On top of that, just from the fact that she asked this question in hopes of landing a date it is obvious that she is seriously considering his offer!

I must ask, is being by yourself really that bad? Is it really such a curse to be single that women are willing to be abused for eternity just to say they have a man?

I am not sure why so many ladies pigeonhole themselves in romance by feeling as if they only have two unwanted options to choose from instead of being single, either temporarily or permanently. If being loved by someone else means that much to you, why not hold off for a bit and wait until someone better comes along?

What this young lady is essentially saying is that if no man wants to date her with the goal of a long-term…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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