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Sorry Ladies, But This Is Not A Flex!
Regardless if a man comes or goes I always have myself, and regret comes with realizing this truth after the fact.
I have been on the receiving end of women bragging about getting men to finally give a damn about their lives after many, many years of neglect through eating healthier, exercising, making appointments to go to the doctor or dentist, dressing better, or putting more effort into their hygiene. A lot of these men were single for many years, and once a woman came into their lives they suddenly remembered that they must put their best foot forward to earn some pussy.
This is what women are so enthralled over: men finally taking pride in themselves, something they should be doing regardless if they are single or taken! In my opinion this is no different than women settling for anyone who simply exists and breathes because they know they can change them, the same shit we advise young girls against. And here grown women are gloating about getting their partners to do the bare minimum in life!
Ladies, only doing what is necessary to impress people you don’t even like is not a flex! Encouraging and inspiring men to take care of themselves is not impressive! Because what does that say about you when you willingly attach your femininity to a man who is that neglectful of himself? Then again, women who neglect themselves…