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Sovereignty > Merit: Only Self-Governing Women Know The Difference

Sanni Lark
4 min readFeb 16, 2024

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Merit doesn’t matter to the sovereign witch because she doesn’t recognize any gatekeepers to her desires.

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Merit only holds power in this earthy matrix where you must look good enough, do good enough, and be good enough to earn the favor of a system or person that will give you a reward you will probably regret giving your all into receiving a few years down the road; usually because the reward is only based on survival and has nothing to do with the authentic desires of the person to begin with.

Women usually are picked, claimed, and chosen to be a man’s bride based on merit. Under the guise of resting in their femininity they prove that they are worthy of that wedding ring by being pretty, maintaining a clean home, cooking a man’s favorite meals, wearing makeup and dresses, being charming and agreeable, refraining from cursing like a sailor, and saying all the right things that will make him intrigued in pursuing her further. As a wife you have earned the favor of that man and so you are “rewarded” for it.

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Merit exists to elevate the gatekeepers of the things you desire. How well you perform at your job plays a role in making your higher-ups look good and the overall success of your company. How well you support your…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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