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Stop Being Scared Of People Who Add Absolutely Nothing To Your Life!
What can people take away from you if they add absolutely nothing to your life?
One of the biggest breakthroughs I am working on is to accept that nobody’s reaction is my problem. I need to shed this idea that I caused someone to act out and harm me, and had I remained silent I wouldn’t get what I “deserved.”
Just like some of us believe we deserve good things, so many ladies still cannot shake the feeling that they deserve bodily harm and other forms of verbal and emotional disrespect for the words that come out of their mouths.
If you can relate, the best way to silence this inner critic that you believed protected you for so long is to drown her voice out. Whenever she speaks, speak fucking louder!
Do yourself a favor, and begin to just piss people you wrong you off with no apology. What exactly can these people do in retaliation? Not a goddamn thing!
Fear has crippled me for so long, and prevented me from embodying my feminine Aries warrior nature and standing…