Stop Blaming Men For Why Life Is So Hard For You!

Sanni Lark
10 min readFeb 1, 2023

“Ladies, why are you so surprised when men show you who they really are, walk it like they talk it, and remain consistent in the nonproductive roles they play in your life, the same roles you allow them to play?”

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I will be honest; it bothers me how ridiculously childish and passive some women choose to be in their own lives. They call themselves beautiful and powerful titles like goddess, empress, and queen, but they act like straight-up peasants in their everyday lives.

So in this article I want to put this “It takes two!” nonsense to rest as it pertains to motherhood once and for all. While I am not a mother, I believe any woman can learn a thing or two from my overall message, which is to quit accepting the rewards that come with blaming everyone for the seeds you sowed and reaped, and begin to embrace the pain and responsibility of being a creator who is in charge of her damn life.

I will give the disclaimer that my words will be as blunt as the sharpest knife in your kitchen, and it will be sure to cut through this despicable woe-is-me conditioning that women adapt as their truth. If you want to remain a victim until you take your last breath, I will implore you to find something else to read. You’ve been warned.

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Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com