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Subtle Financial Leaks: The Irony Of Relationships Being Beneficial For Women

Sanni Lark
4 min readMay 2, 2024

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Relationships are where women bleed the most money in their lives, or as I like to call it, their businesses.

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I have stated many, many times that our lives are businesses and we must treat them as such. For the average woman, her “compensation” for dedicating her life, or her personal business, to her family, children, friends, and partner instead of herself are the feelings of belonging, love, togetherness, and connection.

Frankly, that is not enough for me. And it never will be.

Some women are okay with this payment, but many others are rebelling against it. This is why we are seeing so many posts and videos on social media with women literally calculating the cost of being mothers and wives. Because they are now realizing that feelings will never be enough.

Of course this sudden realization that they were underpaid for decades upsets many men, because they were able to get away with paying actual tender towards their doctors, favorite restaurants, and therapists for so long.

On the other hand, they conveniently use their girlfriends, wives, female friends and family members, and other women to restore their broken bodies and spirits through feminine love, touch, and presence, nourish their bodies through food…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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