The Band-Aid Called Revenge That Hurt Women Wear Over & Over Again

Sanni Lark
3 min readSep 11, 2024

The traumas I lived through, processed, and healed from eventually gave me so much more pleasure and power than revenge could ever redeem me with.

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Ladies, be mindful of anyone who is always encouraging you to seek revenge for every little inconvenience or incident that occurs in your life. Take a good look at their lives; if you look closely you will see how their lives are ran by chaos. They have no peace. They’re always on edge and ready for war when the only war that’s in progress is the battle within themselves. I personally know gifted victims. I don’t want to become them. They are still immensely bitter over events from decades ago they used magick to remove!

Letting go and moving on is not a popular move, but I would rather be better than bitter. Even as a writer I had a much larger audience when I admitted that I was bitter over the shit I experienced with men in many past articles. But now that I am better and I have a different approach to the pains we suffer through as women some of those readers have chosen to find another female content creator to trauma bond with under the guise of women’s empowerment. And that’s okay. I wish them all the best.

Revenge has its place; it exists for a reason. But at the end of the day many people are too traumatized to understand that…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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