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The Cultural Glorification Of Traumatized, Hypersexual Women
“In the real world, many women are too traumatized from the selfish acts that men inflict on their bodies without their permission to the point where they cannot derive any sensation from sex or masturbation.”
There is this overwhelming narrative within our heternormative culture that conditions women to believe we are supposed to be hot and ready at all times for men, no matter what they have done to us. We are always supposed to stop whatever we are doing to cater to their sexual needs, because apparently we want the same thing they do, anytime they do as well!
In this narrative there is no such thing as maintaining autonomy and boundaries over your body as a means of self-preservation and protection. There is no such thing as being too tired, too angry, too depressed, or even expressing any emotions that prevent men from getting what they want from you at any time. If a man wants to spend the remainder of the evening between your legs your schedule automatically syncs with his, because you are programmed to always be horny whenever he is and derive the same pleasurable satisfaction from an act that results in a disproportionately higher amount of dissatisfied women than men in the real world.
In the real world, many ladies have multiple children with men who have never given them one…
