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The Curse Of Loving An Underachieving Man!

Sanni Lark
4 min readApr 10, 2023

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“Too many men are too busy chasing tail to chase tangible goals! But these types are worthy of your heart? I think not!”

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Desperate women who are single or have underachieving leeches for boyfriends and husbands insist on preaching that we should give all men a chance, no matter what don’t have, what they don’t can’t provide, and what they cannot add to our lives. Unfortunately these ladies truly do not understand the psyche of men. Their rationale is that love is all you need, so “frivolous” things like money, status, accomplishments, and success should not matter.

They call themselves queens, but they settle for men who think, speak, behave, and move like peasants and encourage other ladies to do the same, all in an attempt to feel better about their piss-poor decisions they refuse to upgrade from. If I were you I wouldn’t listen to shit they have to say. Peasant relationships have way too many problems to be labeled as loving!

Sure, it is wonderful to have a caring man by your side. But let’s be real here: how can he live up to this adjective if he cannot fully express how much he cares for you through tangible means? There are only so many cuddles, kisses, hand-holding, love making, and hugs a woman can receive before she is scratching her head and asking herself, “What’s next?”

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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