The Dark Side Of Self-Optimization, And Why They Won’t Accept The Woman You’re Becoming

Sanni Lark
4 min readJun 5, 2024

Relatable women are boring as fuck. They are miserable as fuck. They are the forgotten ones.

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There will come a time when you must decide if it is worth abandoning your authentic identity just to not feel alone; never mind the fact that some friends do not know how to feed our souls in the ways we can when we are deeply in love with all facets of our being.

I always say that if you feel alone you might as well be alone.

Everyone wants you to be relatable. They want you to be understanding and compassionate about any and everything that has nothing to do with you. They want to leave you be for a while and return back to your presence at any time they feel like it without any shocks to their nervous system resulting from you extending yourself towards genuine interactions with people who are in love with your essence and moving towards opportunities where you can shine like the rare gem you are.

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Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com