The Elephant In The Monogamous, Heterosexual Room…

Sanni Lark
3 min read2 days ago

It is only heterosexual women who are frustrated, therefore they are being told that monogamy is to blame for a man’s attempts to control a woman’s sexuality; however this is not the work of monogamy!

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When I read these words that a polygamous man had to say online I couldn’t help but raise my eyebrows:

Monogamy is a scam.

It has never been about both partners being exclusive.

It’s always about controlling the woman’s sexuality while the man does whatever he can get away with.

If monogamy was a scam across the board, all women belonging to various sexual orientations would be complaining, correct? So why is it that lesbian women are not complaining about monogamy? Or pansexual women? It is only heterosexual women who are frustrated, therefore they are being told that monogamy is to blame for a man’s attempts to control a woman’s sexuality; however, this is not the work of monogamy. This is solely the work of men, men, and men alone!

And the man who wrote this post tagged it under #polygamy and #ethicalnonmonogamy to suggest that the ladies open themselves up to more men, not women, as if inviting more controlling-ass men into your romantic life is the only answer. As if polygamous men are not trying to control a woman’s sexuality…

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Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com