The Frustrating Venture Known As Finding Porn For The Demisexual

“Basically, porn for me is just witnessing how sexually accommodating women are to men who don’t give a fuck about them. Whether this one-sidedness is based on a real or play relationship isn’t the point. It is still a reflection of reality.”

I identify as a demisexual, and I have since reexamined and adjusted my expectations when it comes to sex and what turns me on. I concluded that I really cannot stand watching porn after calling it quits on scrolling through endless pages of women pleasing selfish men who are much too lazy and focused on draining their dicks. Many guys look to PornHub to indulge their sexual appetites, and this fantasy realm of 24/7 dick sucking is even utilized to gauge if the real women they interact with on a daily basis measure up to the glamorous actresses who are paid to gobble masculine members of all lengths and colors in their small mouths with no questions asked. I am left to form the theory that the act of sex is mainly for men, and I wonder if women actually have a place to receive pleasure in heterosexual relationships?

Finding porn that appeals to me has always been a never-ending, frustrating feat. For starters, most porn is designed to make dicks stand at full attention. The slow build-up of intensity that makes my lady bits blush and gush does not really exist in the…