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The Hypergamy Lies Pretty Beggars Tell

Sanni Lark
3 min read3 days ago

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You are not hypergamous when you don’t have the leverage to negotiate your price. Every woman has one. Be sure that the bare minimum you have yet to secure for yourself isn’t it.

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I truly believe women should have at the very least a solid foundation of enjoyment, satisfaction and safety in their careers and housing situations before dating instead of blindly trusting and relying on random horny men to take care of these basic needs. In my opinion, hypergamy in this day and age should not include women using relationships to save them from dangerous and abusive situations that negatively affect their mental health and quality of life. As an adult, these are things you must navigate before you even think about falling in love.

Dating in general should be an enjoyable experience where a man and his resources adds to what you have earned on your own, not a fucking rescue mission! You should be safe and secure with or without a man. Ain’t that much loneliness in the world!

There are too many vultures, parasites and vampires with empty promises lurking around, waiting to…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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