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The Hypocrisy Of Women Who Find Their Prince Charming
“At what cost is a goal worthwhile? What are the emotional, physical, and mental damages some women incur as they crawl towards the finish line of marriage in bruises and scars? And why aren’t these wives talking about it openly?”
“I received more confirmation…these women aren’t being “chosen” to be wives. They’re begging, pleading, laboring, and working like dogs to win them a husband, because apparently men are the prize.
If they’re not getting down on one knee to propose, they’re dragging these men to the altar.
Stop lying. That man did not choose you.
He didn’t view you as his prize. You were conveniently building his credit, housing him, pretending he is the man of the home, and teaching him the basics of life. Of course he couldn’t pass up on the opportunity to use you for a lifetime.
Shit, I would marry you too!”
-Sanni Lark
Let me start out by saying this: I am not a hater. I am happy that many women are finding their soul mates and beginning the process of merging their lives with another’s, as well as creating new memories that will last a long time.
But still, I must call some of these women out. Because I have noticed that their values change drastically once their…