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The Missing Key To Cultivating Authentic Femininity, As Told By A Woman Who Was Lost & Found
The difficult process of becoming is not easily sold to impressionable women who desire trinkets like relationships that serve as enjoyable bandages over deep wounds.
Donning a face full of makeup every time you leave the house and wearing more skirts and dresses as opposed to pants and jeans is cute. Exercising to lose a few pounds because some YouTuber told you that men like slim women is cool. Sure, all of this can land you a date or even a husband. But what happens once you get the man? You lose yourself. Again. And what’s worse is that this “press-on femininity” does not guarantee that your sole source of love will even stick around!
Based on the counterfeit femininity being sold to women I see why so many ladies claim they are nothing without their man. Sadly, I actually believe them.
Femininity that can withstand heartache, loss, and disappointment is achieved through authenticity, which is a natural byproduct of self-mastery. And the only women who have mastered themselves are those ladies who have spend adequate time with themselves. Once you master yourself you are more confident, and that confidence is expressed through being your most genuine self.