Society Makes Me Hate Being Childfree!

Sanni Lark
7 min readJan 31, 2023

“Existing as a single and childfree woman means I live in a world that is immensely oriented and downright obsessed towards procreation and gene cloning through the continuation of the human race.”

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I have discussed in depth how wonderful it is to live as an adult woman without any progeny and the freedom and time this decision has afforded me on many occasions. However, I want to discuss the downsides of being childfree, with each of these downsides pointing to one glaring factor that feels unbearable to me and other childfree adults, but is overlooked by nearly 99% of the human population.

Before I begin, I want to point out that the purpose of me speaking from the heart is not to rant or bitch incessantly about the choice I made to be single and childfree for life. It is to provide my readers with a glimpse into everyday life from my unconventional point of view, and possibly reveal how group think permeates every facet of our society to the point where some of us ostracize ourselves and intentionally cut ourselves off from experiencing the joys of companionship and other relationships.

For many of us, the temporary reward of connecting with a special someone is not worth the yards of red tape we are forced to maneuver simply because we choose to live different lives!

With that being said, existing as a single and childfree woman means I live in a world that is immensely oriented and downright obsessed towards procreation and gene cloning through the continuation of the human race. All of this is accomplished by way of the institution of family.

I should add that I am not an antinatalist; I personally do not care to impose my views onto others. Everyone is free to do with their horny genitals as they please. But I wish that ever so often I can receive a goddamn break from the 24-hour programming that always attempts to shove the joys of motherhood within a heterosexual family dynamic in my face!

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Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com