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The One Thing I Admire About Men

Sanni Lark
2 min readMay 19, 2021

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The differences between men and women in relationships are so fascinating, and it’s something I constantly write about in my free time. Because there is a discrepancy between what I am conditioned to believe as a woman and what the reality of relationships are, and the role everyone thinks I should play as the woman.

Truthfully, some men are much smarter than we give them credit for.

Why?

Because they know how to be served in relationships.

Men do not look at love the way we do. Why do you think chick flicks exist?

As women, we are taught to always strive for fairy tales while laboring for the men that feed us these same ideologies. I see women performing as free maids, therapists, and mother figures to their husbands and boyfriends, all while believing that they are in a loving relationship.

If that isn’t a powerful spell, I don’t know what is.

From my observation, some men really could care less about love. They look at the emotion of love as an automatic feeling that comes with the woman they’re with. These men care about being served first and foremost, and they have an agenda for every woman they come across.

Now what’s our “agenda” as women? To feel like we are in love. That’s it.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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