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The Orgasm Gap: Spiritual Origins
The orgasm gap exists because men have the spiritual, physical and social privilege of being more carefree and spontaneous when it comes to sex.
In my opinion, the origins of the orgasm gap do not start with men but with women. Before blaming your partner for being bad in bed or not knowing where the clit is located, there exists a primordial obligation to yourself and to the human race which contributes to the imbalanced emotional labor of women during intimacy, in addition to the vast discrepancy in emotional labor in every single role that involves sex like marriage, children and relationships. So not only are the ladies stressed out during sex, but they are also stressed out from dealing with the aftermath of sex.
When it comes to intercourse women have a lot more to lose than men do, which includes their sense of self that is fed on by the role of motherhood; a lifestyle which nourishes babies while eating her alive.
Men typically dedicate their lives to pursuing sex, even under the guise of being driven in their careers because there are very little social risks and lifestyle consequences that men must face through this activity compared to women. One, men are praised for having a higher body count or adding a “notch in their belt” while women are criticized for the same activity that contributes to more sexual partners. Two, men…
