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The Origins Of Exploitation: Why Women Who Have No Leverage Sell Themselves (Short)
The truth is that most women are for sale. The prostitute engages in sexual acts for survival, while the wife engages in sexual acts for…
Women who are traumatized and desperate for survival, love, or both are prime targets to be exploited by anyone who has the promise of money and adoration to throw their way. And yes, as difficult as it is to hear women are willing to be owned by others to receive what they need and want because the average woman hardly has any leverage to negotiate healthy, reciprocal partnerships and relationships in the first place.
This is why I speak against this ridiculous obsession with pretty and thin privilege that women feel is their ticket to the good life. Being pretty and thin is not real leverage to anyone with tangible assets. Pretty, thin women are discarded every damn day. They are used up and left with nothing or even left for dead, or as the conspiracy theorists love to say, sacrificed.
Unaddressed trauma and desperation make women way too gullible to even receive the love, respect, and adoration they are seeking in men who promise them these things. This is what these femininity coaches are not speaking about: being gorgeous and appealing with no leverage can have you used and discarded.
