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The Real Reason Why Men Don’t Give A Damn About Your Degrees

Sanni Lark
3 min readApr 9, 2024

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Too many women are book smart but life dumb.

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Education is great and you can go very far with it. But in the real world it does not compensate for common sense, strategy, and even feminine skills and tools like charisma, beauty, personal style, intuition, flattery, and savviness.

I cannot tell you how many times I have received job offers based on wearing beautiful colorful clothes that pop on my dark skin and making my future male boss feel powerful in a way other more qualified candidates couldn’t even dream of. I don’t give a damn how educated that man is or how authoritative he appears. On a primal level men are driven by sex. Use that to your advantage.

Of course it depends on your field, but if you can ditch that boring-ass navy, black, or tan suit do it! That shit is ugly. Don’t be afraid to look pretty. Look your future boss in the eyes. Giggle at his stupid jokes. Compliment him. Also, ask for help and act like he’s the only person who can save you; men enjoy feeling useful. And they love when their egos are stroked just as much as they love stroking their dicks.

Trust me, you will be ahead of women who are so fucking afraid to be women! The ladies who are scared of their feminine authority or they hate it altogether are a dime a dozen and they are easily…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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