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The Rocky Relationship Women Have With Lust & Sex

Sanni Lark
5 min readApr 13, 2022

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“From observing this sex-obsessed culture filled with horny people who seem to enjoy torturing themselves over love and intimacy, it feels very freeing to not personally share in their problems.”

I am an asexual babe. And it took me a long time to fully understand the connection between lust, sexual trauma, and my disgust with sex and men in general. These pathways have led me to discover a deeper sense of self through my chosen lifestyle of singleness.

Besides being repulsed by the opposite sex due to my experiences with them and what I witness daily, I can admit that I am not that sexually attracted to men. I identify as heterosexual, but truth be told my body doesn’t want men. Dicks are ugly and I don’t want them anywhere near my pretty body. Those flesh wands between a man’s legs shoot out fluids that create babies and carry diseases.

As an asexual woman it was much easier for me to move past the desire for romantic connection after years of introspection and celibacy. I know that I should have more compassion for women who crave a healthy relationship or have a hard time accepting rejection from the opposite sex over and over again. But I do have a hard time sympathizing, simply because I do not understand the drive these women have to keep hope alive.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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