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The Taboo Reason Why My Rape Article Was So Popular With Men

Sanni Lark
4 min readSep 1, 2022

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“The male collective does not play nice and they truly do not give a damn about your trauma if your pain can get their rocks off.”

A few weeks ago I came across a Quora thread where a former sex worker opened up about her past years on OnlyFans. She recently deleted the app for good, touting that while the money she earned was lucrative it still wasn’t worth the emotional abuse she endured from her male clientele.

These horny men were not shy about asking her if she was sexually abused, and further requesting that they would like for her to explain in detail what happened because they were turned on by picturing a helpless woman being harmed against her will. Some of them even asked if she would be open to role playing a rape scene on the phone, and tried to incentivize her to submit to their demands by offering her more money.

I know a few sex workers who have admitted similar occurrences, so none of this surprised me. Not only that, but I am well-aware of the animalistic, predatory, aggressive nature of men in general. The male collective does not play nice and they truly do not give a damn about your trauma if your pain can get their rocks off. So anyone expecting anything different, such as compassion, has no business soliciting the wallets of men in exchange for their bodies or time.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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