The Trap Of Luxury, And Why Traumatized Women Fall In Love With Things Not People

The clothes you wear were never designed to be the only things to hold your body and make you feel safe, valued, accomplished, desired, and loved.

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If women actually received the nurturing, attention, provisions, and intimacy that they have craved since girlhood from their partners, would they create personas where they are shallow and lacking feminine substance to receive the bare minimum from the opposite sex…especially if they can admit that they are only channeling their coping mechanism through a man out of survival and a lack of warmth and love in their lives?

Maturing Is Realizing That You Don’t Need To Shop Every Time You’re Sad

And yes, I do believe a man who can afford to give you the world but refuses to give you any emotional vulnerability and connection from the depths of his soul is a bare minimum. This is because emotions are the real currency, not money. They are the real treasure that everyone does not have unfettered access to. I mean, anyone can spend money on you and discard you like an empty bag of chips when they are done. Because that’s exactly what the relationship is…