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“This Is Why Men Don’t Express Their Feelings!”

Sanni Lark
4 min readFeb 18, 2022

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It is another beautiful, sunny afternoon in the World of Men, a magical place where the masculine sees no issue in blaming everyone but themselves for why they are unhappy.

Lately I’ve been coming across many comments and articles from the very men I am forced to share this planet with, and they love stating that men do not express their feelings, mainly for two reasons. And as a result society is forced to deal with the aftermath of not babying and accommodating the masculine even more than we already do.

Before I begin, let me just say that their reasons are merely excuses. Men will find any way possible to hunt and conquer every damn thing except themselves. There is a whole industry of pick-up artists dedicated to manipulating and conquering women, and even scamming them out of thousands of dollars from setting up dating profiles online. But these same men cannot take a few minutes out of their day to go on the internet to find a damn therapist?!

You mean to tell me that men can send a good morning text to 10 different women but they cannot set up a tele-therapy session where they can literally text their problems to a trusted professional? These are the types of men society wants me to feel sorry for?!

That is absolutely hilarious! Sorry, but y’all got the wrong one. I’m too smart to feel bad for people who can easily help themselves. But let’s begin.

The first construct to blame is society, the same patriarchal system they created and work so damn hard to sustain which berates the masculine for crying and showing emotion. As a woman this is not my problem.

The second reason has to do with their relationships, where they insist on staying with the partners they don’t feel comfortable being emotionally vulnerable with for whatever reason. Men, perhaps you should choose better? Maybe partnership encompasses more than a young, glamorous woman who looks good on your arm?

Many partnered women are begging men to be more open with little to no success. In my personal opinion, I take it that these guys may possibly want more emotional connection, but they cannot help but take advantage of the concerns of women and our greater society.

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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