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Tired Of Addressing The Lack Of Self-Awareness In Shallow People & Calling It A Relationship? Read This.
You don’t owe people anything they refuse to give themselves, and that includes the gift of awareness of how they got themselves (and you) fucked up!
The truth that society does not want to hear is that leaving people the fuck alone to learn from their mistakes and take the initiative to course correct their own lives triggers massive amounts of self-awareness, inner growth, confidence, as well as empathy for the time and well-being of others. You can only be understanding to the needs of others when you are aware of how your ignorance and lack of initiative in fixing your shit affects other people.
So as far as I’m concerned, the same folks who claim they don’t deserve the shit they go through are simply unaware of the horrible effects their need to use the life force of their loved ones to do better and to be better takes a toll on them. So yes, they absolutely deserve what they get! We all do. Just because you lack the consciousness to identify how much you are a burden on others doesn’t mean you are not a burden on others!
