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Too Many Lazy, Useless, Mediocre Husbands?

Sanni Lark
5 min readJan 25, 2023

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“Is a lifestyle where the onus of maintaining a clean home while her husband points out everything that is wrong with the home he lives in truly the life goals of women?”

Credit: Burak Evlivan via Pexels

When I came across a “heartfelt” reel created by one husband about his wife, I didn’t know whether to laugh in disbelief or cry at his sentiments. His laziness and uselessness as a life partner and parental figure was very apparent to me in his words. However, many women were drooling over this man’s dedication to his wife who just had a baby.

Well, of course they were! In their minds, any man who breathes and exists will do when it comes to choosing a husband. The standards for men truly are set in the pits of hell.

Here are his words:

“Today I walked in on my wife working out while our newborn napped. Our house was a disaster. Dishes needed to be cleaned. Laundry needed to be done. And a million other things she felt she had to do. Yet I could not be more proud.

She instead decided to take just a little time to herself that she deserved 10 times over. Always remember that you deserve time to yourself. The mess and chores can always wait, but your mental health should never be sacrificed.”

The majority of ladies on the app viewed his post as loving, however I call bullshit…

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Sanni Lark
Sanni Lark

Written by Sanni Lark

Channeling sacred, unadulterated, feminine chaos and wisdom through writing. For more primordial womanhood activation visit: https://www.sannilark.com

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